Obviously, she ain't that sharp of a gal to pass up a guy like you. You are not going to get a response if you start off a message by saying for example:. And you've got to be thinking about what mindset she's going to be in while reading this. I did have a few girls reply back then.
The example above is more suited for a dating site where longer messages are the norm, but you can get her talking about herself on a dating app with a short message like this:.